![]() ![]() ![]() I can already picture what you’re thinking because I get the same reaction every time I share this with someone - just hear me out. When someone gives you an ultimatum, always choose the other thing. I’m not saying you should follow it because I don’t want the responsibility of the negative repercussions that may result.īut damnit I’ve seen too many scenarios where others would be better off adopting this rule also, so here it is: This is another one of those personal rules. Remember when I said I never go back to an ex? I told you I have a few personal rules I live by. Then let me know because I need more data. Ask your married friends and family members if this was the case for them. 100% of the cases I’ve observed, no exceptions.ĭon’t take my word for it. ![]() Even worse, these men are all miserable in their marriage. All this time I thought they both actually wanted to get married.Įven more shocking - after telling me about this, most women brag about it right in front of their husbands. I was shocked to find out how many people I knew (not all, but an alarming amount) who got married after the girl threatened to leave the guy if he didn’t propose. Married someone you were reluctant to marry and end up unhappy? Gee, who would’ve seen it coming…Īnother reason the proposal ultimatum is the focus of this article is that it’s the most common and serious ultimatum I have experience with and have witnessed firsthand. The context of this article is around the proposal ultimatum because this is hands-down, without question the #1 cause of men being miserable with their marriages - from my observation. If you don’t propose to me, I’ll leave you.I won’t do business with you if you do business with.Here are a few ultimatums you’ll hear as an adult: Surely kids don’t usually mean it when they hit someone with an ultimatum - they do it because they know how effective it is. Well, you’re not going to be in my life much longer anyway, so… bye motherfucker! Those terms seem a little harsh, don’t you think?įast forward to today, and you probably haven’t talked to that person in years.ĭon’t you wish you could go back and give them the response they deserved… Maybe you gave in, maybe you didn’t - but you were probably taken back by it. If you don’t let me use the good swing I’m not gonna be your friend anymore! Think back to when you were a little kid, playing at recess with your friends when all of a sudden your “friend” draws a line in the sand and hits you with an ultimatum… ![]()
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